Rose Marie Hallinan (O'Connell )
June 24, 1930 – November 2, 2018
Died at home surrounded by family in Sun City Center, Florida.
Celebration of Life tentatively planned for Roe's birthday weekend–June 22-23, 2019.
Roe Hallinan was born in Chicago, IL to Edward and Ethel O'Connell and was a sister to Edward Jr, Miriam, Dona Mae, Don, Bob and her cousin Marilyn whom she considered a sister. She is survived by her husband of 67 years, Jim Hallinan. She leaves behind her nine children, Linda Hallinan, Sheila Hallinan, Tom (Marcia) Hallinan, Nancy (David) Pribnow, Patti (Adrian) Lemon, Joe (Val) Hallinan, Carl (Poy) Hallinan, Melanie (Brian) Kelly, and Lisa (Scott) Schooling as well as 20 grandchildren and a great grandchild. She was preceded in death by her son-in-law, Larry Mendelson.
How can one capture in simple words the vibrancy, life, and character of someone they loved dearly? As a daughter, I'll try my best. My mom, Roe, was probably the most resilient person I know – her wonderful sense of humor, quick wit, determination, flexibility, adaptability, innovation, and her strong marriage to my father made parenting look easy. As a parent with grown children myself, I now truly wonder at her strength and fortitude in raising nine children while moving at least a dozen times! Certainly, her faith and strong relationship with the Catholic Church was a great support, as well as friendships she formed across the country, but her loving and egalitarian marriage to my dad, Jim, was the foundation that helped her stay the course with grace (even when we weren't being grateful or gracious!).
You cannot even begin to imagine the mountains of laundry (literally!) Roe washed and folded and the miles and miles she traversed getting us places, and yet she made time to sit by my side and help me sew a blouse and skirt for a state fair competition, gave of herself to teach religious instruction to migrant workers' children, hosted live-in students (Sue and Betty), Fresh Air kids, and storm-stranded families and made them a part of our family. She was willing to try anything and found nothing daunting––even learning to sew to make matching dresses for my sisters and me for my uncle's wedding! Wherever we lived, she found ways to be involved in community and if she recognized an unmet need, she started a club or organization to meet it.
Roe worked as my dad's inside sales assistant when first married, went back to school and earned her university degree at age 52, worked at various jobs and later ran a business with my father. She was involved in ecumenical groups, the League of Women Voters, was proactive in immigration support activities and anti-discrimination causes. She traveled as far as Africa to visit her son in the Peace Corps, to Haiti to see the country of our exchange student Betty, and with adventurous aplomb she visited Puerto Rico, the Bahamas, Bermuda, Canada, Europe, and Costa Rica. She truly was a wonder woman and the best role model a daughter could wish for – she will be sorely missed, lovingly remembered, and forever emulated!
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to: Doctors Without Borders doctorswithoutborders.org